OMG sometimes my 4 y/o daughter is annoying.?

Take back control. Believe it or not, little kids are like animals. The only thing she knows is that if she fusses, she will get your attention and possibly get you to change your mind. her, make her do what you say. Eventually she will turn around. When I was little I fussed about bed time, my mom left me in my room, and I eventually ped out from exaustion. YOu know what I learned, that screaming, fighting and crying wont get me my way. At bath time, bath her do it the way YOU need to. Dry her. Don't put up with any kicking and screaming. YOU are her parent. Not her subordinate.