I am in a great dilemma....whether i should my relationship or not?pls help guys?

m 22 ,female, delhi,,india...my lifes biggest problem is to BALANCE THE REAL AND THE IDEAL...i have set standards for anything and everything in my mind..and if things dont go that particular way,i get upset to the extent of suicidal tendencies..i feel that we should do everything to comfort our partner and consider him or her as a part of ourselves..but my bf says its not possibl n i have other engagements also ! i feel bad when he talks like this..he said he will not tolerate this kind of behaviour..i know i am wrong partially ..but i am die hard romantic..i cant change my standards of TOTALLY MAD IN LOVE..coz this is what i am..should i leave him coz he is not ready to take me the way i am or nt ready to give me emotional support..should i stay on with him?