How do I deal with a man who's scared of commitment?

I know you like this guy, but it seems like a vicious cycle. You should stay friends with him if he's important to you, but don't date or sleep with him anymore. He obviously has some issues he needs to work out and you deserve a man who is clear on what he wants. Basically, keep yourself emotionally distant from him and don't cave when he appears to show you feelings. If he can change and make a solid committment you should reconsider, but don't hold your breath.